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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Ask Ariella: How to navigate a fear of rejection

Ariella- 38/f ; introvert; some social anxiety. I’ve had 3 gf’s my entire life and I rarely date because I have an intense fear of…

3 min readJan 6, 2022

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

“Why are you still single?”: Talking about the relationship escalator over the holidays.

Last week I recorded a really interest podcast episode with someone who had admitted to being really clinging to the relationship…

4 min readDec 17, 2021

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A transfemme person having a drink with christmas lights in the background.

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

How do you prepare for first dates? A four part homework activity.

Something that often comes up with clients before first dates is: how do I remain positive and hopeful when embarking on a new experience…

4 min readNov 30, 2021

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How do you prepare for first dates? A four part homework activity.

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Ask Ariella: How and when to talk about asexuality?

Ariella,

4 min readNov 15, 2021

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The cover of the book “Ace” by Angela Chen

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

“Do femmes think I’m too short to date?”

CW: Naming transphobia, ableism.

3 min readNov 2, 2021

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a trans couple enjoying a moment together in the park

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Follower q: “How do you assertively ask someone out when only recently coming out?”

I get this question a lot and want to help tackle it today

3 min readOct 12, 2021

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Follower q: “How do you assertively ask someone out when only recently coming out?”

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

“Do you have to be totally over an ex before ‘getting back out there’?”

I was asked this question by a former client on my instagram stories last week. I was going to address it with a quick little video, but I…

6 min readSep 13, 2021

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A queer person with a blank expression on their face while they hug someone.

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

How to Fight Better: 7 Ways to Not Fight Like Greg and Katie

Watching last night’s After The Final Rose had me feeling really uncomfortable because of Katie and Greg’s “closure conversation”. This…

5 min readAug 10, 2021

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How to Fight Better: 7 Ways to Not Fight Like Greg and Katie

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Flirting Via Text Message

“How can I tell if someone is flirting with me through text message?”

2 min readAug 3, 2021

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person smiling while looking at a phone sitting on a couch

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Gaslighting? Investigating how we’re all Greg and Katie.

Was Greg gaslighting Katie on The Bachelorette last night? Maybe. Is that what we should be talking about today? Not in my opinion.

4 min readAug 3, 2021

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Teary eyed greg

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Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur

Ariella is a Queer Dating Coach who helps kind, queer folks navigate the dating pool, so they have the courage to go after what they want in dating and in life.

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